Friday, July 9, 2010

BB

Big Brother USA is back.
Not quite as good as BBUK... but still a guilty pleasure.

Cosmic Love

Florence + the Machine are pretty spectacular.

Ring a Ding

I love an onion ring.

Especially one battered and fried in house with a cornmeal or panko-esque breading.

FatBurger

Relish... great new gourmet burger place.

Top Down

Love the a/c and I am very grateful for it. But I have a slight preference at the moment for the windows down cooling system. No idea why... but I am enjoying it.

Tweet Tweet

Twitter.

Trying to get more into it.

And hoping I hear from celebs!

Chance Meeting

Running into friends when you don't expect to.

Love that.

Cut

Fresh cut grass smells pretty good.
Especially when I didn't have to cut it.

Thomas the Tank Engine

Taking the train.

I'm usually the driver... so anytime I get to sit back and relax... well, I'm happy.

Sunglasses At Night

Well, not really at night... but they are new and reflective and from Joe Fresh.

I'm ballin' in them.

(Online) Office Space

Google Docs is pretty cool. And although I'm using it to work on a project with colleagues this summer (curses, working during my vacation-- and I VOLUNTEERED for it, idiot that I am), I'm impressed with it.

Mocha Chocolatte Ya Ya

Tim Horton's Ice Caps. Made with chocolate milk.

Some of my favourite times in the first half of the year involve drinking these bad boys with one of my best friends.

Degrassi Boy Does Good

Drake is quite possibly my new favourite rap artist

Summer Jam

Billionaire by Travie McCoy

The Boxer

Boxer shorts in the summer may be the best discovery I've had in years.

Cold as Ice

My window AC unit.
Old
Vintage
Probably an environmental disaster
But it cools me down
Reliably

Feel it on My Fingertips

Rain in the middle of heatwave

It Brings Everyone to the Yard

Rum Butter Milkshakes.
(Or a mint one, in a pinch).

Veggie Tales

Mixed greens salad with cranberries, walnuts, and raspberry vinaigrette.

Another Level

3D Movies.
Like Toy Story 3

A freakishly different movie experience.

Permanent Vacation?

So I haven't blogged for awhile. I have to catch up on 21 days to get to where I need to be. And that kind of seems overwhelming for me. But I'm going to do it. I won't let this 365 entry side project be thwarted!

So where have a been? I've been... less than adequate. Not in the last week or so, but for a while prior to that. And it just didn't feel right to come on here and pretend that everything is hunky dory when it just wasn't. I had a really rough couple of weeks. Work was crazy busy... overwhelming almost. And I had a couple of run ins with some co-workers which just made the last few weeks before work ended for the year really difficult.

But I had been dealing with a really rough situation with a friend which bothered me more than I wanted it to. I thought I was over being affected by that sort of stuff. I'm a cut and run sort of guy. If something isn't working, let it be and move on: it's not worth the stress. I know that isn't the best way to deal with problems, but it's worked okay for 30 years for me, so it's what I'm used to. And this time too, I tried to do that. I really did. But I couldn't. And it made me miserable.

Coming on here and going on about stuff that was super would have just been fake... and I don't want to, in the future, look back on this project and have a mental asterisk in which I tell myself I was lying. So I waited. And here we are. I'm not saying everything was bad-- some really good times were had. And even when I thought about writing about those good times, the other stuff entered my head.

So why now? Am I all better? Not totally. (And that's honesty. I think I'm way more honest with myself now than I ever was. ) But I feel like I'm almost there. I think the situation in question is resolving itself nicely (after some beer, several coffees, some very unhealthy food, and more discussion than I'm comfortable with) and I'm feeling okay with it for the first time in a long time. Optimistic even.

I'm doing this project to recognize the good. And I still believe in that concept deeply. But I think I need to at least acknowledge that the less than good times can affect me too. And they help shape me. I don't want to dwell on them, but I'm pretty happy that I can learn from them and move on from them. They don't define me-- my reaction to them does.

So. Here we are. And I'm 21 days behind (20 after this post). So, as a reward for my epiphany... I'm going to go into rapid fire mode: 20 days, 20 things which don't require much explanation.

I'm back :)

Monday, June 21, 2010

Departing Departures

I've talked about how much I love the show Departures... it is, without a doubt, the best Canadian show on television. Full stop.

Last weekend, the final episode of the show aired. It was a final trip to Australia... the last continent they had to visit. It was a fantastically simple episode-- nothing too exciting-- some general tom foolery around Uluru, some off roading... just a simple episode like the show started.

It was a tribute to an amazing 3 seasons.

Wimbledon

It's my favourite tennis tournament of the year-- and it starts today. I'm pulling for Murray as always, but I'm not sure if I should publicly announce it, as the people I tend to support never do very well athletically (ahem, England, World Cup). I really want him to win though... maybe against Djokovic or Roddick.

As for ladies-- well, the Belgians are always a threat. But ladies tennis hasn't been so exciting over the past few years... basically because of the Williams' sisters dominance.

I visited Wimbledon 2 years ago during the tournament. I got to watch a couple of the games on the non-grandstand courts. And I got to sit on Henmen Hill (Murray Mound?) and just enjoy the overall ambiance of the event. I was a sucker and even had strawberries and cream.

It was a great day and now I relive that moment over the next two weeks.

My Life on the D List

Kathy Griffin makes me laugh.

I think, in a way, I really admire her. She's made a living off of being honest and saying what she thinks about people. Now, I'm glad we all don't live that way... it'd be a nightmare. But every so often, it'd be nice to live that way.

Nah, never mind-- thank goodness for social niceties.

Caught Up

I rarely get caught up on my work... but today I have.

Nice. Go me.

Tuesday, June 15, 2010

Zzzzzzzzzzzz

I find that a good night's sleep is all I want anymore. I'm not tired, really, but those 6-7 hours of rest are some of my favourite in the day.

I think a lot of people are unlucky in sleep-- they can't fall asleep or they can't stay asleep... and while I have my occasional off nights, I'm pretty fortunate in that department.

Shout For England



GET IN!!!!!!!!

I'm Just a Kid

I had the opportunity to organize an event last week where everybody got to be a kid-- play around, get wet, do crazy events, etc. About 200 people got to enjoy it for the afternoon.

Seeing the people participating and having fun was more fun than actually doing the event for me. I'd much rather facilitate the fun anymore than participate... another sign of getting older or of growing up?

GOOOOOAAAAAALLL!!

World Cup is upon is! I love it!

So many people at my work are into it-- it's definitely been enjoyable to compete with each other and bug each other about wins and losses. I love being a part of it.

GO ENGLAND!

BBUK

Big Brother United Kingdom is back. It's my favourite show. And this is the last year of it.

It'll be a bittersweet season. But I'm going to enjoy the ride.

Walkin' On Sunshine

One of my hometown's major events is the annual Relay for Life. I went a few years ago for the first time after my aunt survived her battle with cancer. It's such an impressive event.

I went to this year's event. My very strong aunt went again to do the survivor lap. It's the most powerful time of the evening, in my opinion. My aunt now rides around the track in a golf cart as it's too much walking for her. I'm so proud of her for surviving this dreadful disease for 6 years.

The survivor's lap this year was still as powerful. Seeing all of the survivors walk around in their yellow shirts with their years of survival paper rings around their necks. What gets me the most however, are the little kids who have one or two rings around their necks-- or the ones who are clearly still in treatment.

It gets me every time-- but their strength is awe inspiring.

Thursday, June 10, 2010

Ole Ole Ole

World Cup starts tomorrow!!!

England to win!

Gavin & Stacey

So I couldn't post about Smithy without playing my favourite clip of the season featuring Doris:

The Guy on TV

I love Gavin & Stacey. A lot. And I think it's because I'm a slightly more refined version of Smithy.

I say refined, but maybe that's the wrong word. He wears his heart on his sleeve way more than I do, and in some respects, I'm very envious of him.

Here are a couple of my favourite Smithy moments:

Wednesday, June 9, 2010

Run Lola Run

I try to work out 4-5 times a week. Don't get me wrong, I dislike every minute of it, but I do it anyway.

I have been in a rut for quite some time, which could help explain why I don't like it so much. But recently, I've tried to start jogging. And while I can't say that it's the most fun I have in my week, I am pretty proud of myself for keeping up with it for a couple of weeks now. I usually just high impact walk, but this new jogging pattern has been ok for me. It's something new at least, and keeping motivated is key.

Real Men Don't Eat Quiche

But do they Brunch?

I do.

I love a good brunch. My favourite is at this Inn about 1/2 hour away from my home. It's a bit posh, but delicious. I try to go twice a year. I usually go with my family around springtime... and then a friend and I go usually the last weekend of the summer. It's kind of a tradition now, I guess.

They have a delicious selection of items. Hot foods are available, both breakfast and lunch. They have a seafood table (not my thing) and a salad bar which is quite good. They also have an omlette station (not my thing) beside a Belgian waffle section (my thing!) and assorted fruits and pastries. Additionally, they have a delicious dessert spread, featuring interactive crepes (my favourite is with bananas, brown sugar, and rum).

Calorically, it's a nightmare... but wow, it's so worth it.

You Don't Know Jack

Well, I thought I knew Jack... but I enjoy the Jack I've recently discovered at the liquor store. It comes premixed with Iced Tea.

Delicious.

Wednesday, June 2, 2010

Thank U

I presented an award today to an individual I've thought very highly of over the past few years. It was an honour to do so-- he was so deserving.

When he came up to get the award, he indicated that it meant a lot as it was presented by me... and that has made my year.

I'm not one of the people in my profession that thinks we make a giant difference in the world. I really don't believe we do. But every so often, we matter to someone... and although we 99% of the time don't hear it, today I got to.

And any stress I've had, any time I complain about my job... well, in that split second... it went away today.

Thanks, son.

June-O

June is probably my favourite month of the year.

Summer is coming.

The weather is wonderful.

Goodtimes all around.

Monday, May 31, 2010

Single Ladies

Wow. This makes me laugh:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AN5YbfFszlI

Coffee Talk

While my true and first coffee love is Starbucks, I have finally found a drink at my local coffee haunt which has warranted my praise: the frozen caramel latte.

Delicious.

Team America

So I've called this entry "Team America" as that's the only pop culture-y reference I could think of involving Kim Jong Il...

So, Departures, one of my favourite shows, had a two hour visit to North Korea... and now I want to go there quite badly. It was nothing like I expected. Granted, the access they had to the country was pretty much limited-- certain things couldn't be filmed, the trip was organized by the North Korean government, etc... But it still looked like a great time.

What impresses me, every time I watch Departures, is how we are so much more alike than different... and I don't think we always appreciate that. The tour guides in the show could have been any of my friends. They were professional when they needed to be, but they relaxed and sang during their downtime. At the end of the show, one of the guides said that travelling with Justin and Scott was like being on holiday for him... and that relaxed atmosphere was so nice to watch.

Let me in DPRK... I wanna visit.

Rockin' the Suburbs

I know it's been around for a while, but it's only been within the last few months that I've played a bit of RockBand. How enjoyable it is!

A friend of mine has had me over several times and we've played the game until late in the evening. I like that it allows everyone, even just for a minute, to fulfill that dream of pretending to be a rockstar. I am horrible at the drums, but I can get by on guitar (easy setting of course) and I enjoy singing the most-- even though my poor friends might not.

It's always a good evening when Rock Band is brought out.

Frosty

I love a Frosty Shake. Wendy's was smart to introduce them. They are delicious.

Moreover, they remind me of some happy times. A couple of friends and I used to always get them last year when they first came out... it was sort of "our thing" to do. The FS now reminds me of the good times I had with those people. In fact, I almost become nostalgic whenever I have one which is weird for me...

Either way, they are delicious, and just what is needed on a hot day like today.

Wednesday, May 26, 2010

Simon Says

So tonight was Simon Cowell's last night on American Idol. It was actually pretty sad. When most of the past idols joined together on stage to sing a farewell song to him, one realizes the profound impact he's had on popular culture over the past decade.

Sure, musically, there's been an impact. Some fantastic artists have been discovered and millions of records have been made. But beyond that, the impact he's had on television is truly astounding.

I've been a way bigger fan of the X Factor for several years now, and I can't wait to see its American incarnation.

Thanks, Mr. Cowell. We look forward to seeing you again soon.

Heat Wave

We are currently experience a heat wave where I live. We're almost 10 degrees warmer than we usually are at this time of year.

While I'm not a beach boy or anything remotely close, I do love the first hot, humid, sticky days of the year... It starts to feel like summer and all of the good things that come along with it.

And although I might complain about the heat in a few weeks, it's this time-- when I realize how much I've missed it over the winter-- that I really appreciate it.

PVR

I don't know if there has been a better invention in the last decade than the PVR. Seriously. It's the most amazing thing for tv lovers.

The thing I most appreciate about it is the fact that it's given me time back. I no longer have to watch commercials or sit through useless drivel. I can now watch an hour drama in 40 minutes. American Idol takes me less than 15 mins. I am gaining so much time that I can put into work or spending time with those I care about-- and it's gained conveniently.

I'm amazed by how much this invention has changed my life... and I'm truly appreciative.

Sunday, May 23, 2010

Post It

Thank goodness for the Post-It.

I have been sitting here for a couple of minutes, trying to figure out what to blog about, and then I noticed the plethora of yellow sticky notes on my desk, reminding me to do reports or what songs to download... or even a reminder to blog!

It's a pretty simple invention, but it makes my life easier!

Gleek?

I don't love the show "Glee." Perhaps I would if it was 13 years ago and I was still in high school. I do, however, enjoy the cast's covers of various songs. Right now my favourite is their cover of the All-American Rejects' "Gives You Hell".

I've always been a sucker for a cover song... it is one of the things listed on the "Stuff White People Like" blog...

I *may* be a stereotype. My bad.

London Calling

I need to go back to London. It's my favourite place in the world. Just for a couple of days... to go back and walk through those city streets, ride the tube, stroll along the Thames.

I have a Union Jack flask which I purchased several weeks ago. It sits on my desk and almost mocks me and my desire to go back to the UK. It's been too long.

I love the flask though, for reminding me each day of my need to go back and because it is merely sitting there, reminding me I will have something to look forward to.

The Right Combination

Is there really a better combination than Bacon, Lettuce, and Tomato, with a smidgen of mayo?

I think not.

Take a Picture

I purchased a new camera. I have a few little trips coming up, so I figured it was time to upgrade from my 5.0 MP to something a little more... adventurous.

So far, so good. My favourite new feature is the front LCD screen which makes those self portraits I'm somewhat notorious for that much easier to take.

Side of the Road

As I was driving to the gym today, I noticed a car parked awkwardly on the side of the road. After the bend, I saw what I assume was the driver walking back towards his car with an armful of garbage.

It's pretty big of some random man to pick up other people's trash. I thought it was pretty nice of him.

Monday, May 17, 2010

Face in the Crowd

Even though my profession requires that I speak in front of groups of people frequently... ok, daily... I don't seek opportunities to do so and I still get a bit nervous many times when I must.

Today I had to do a presentation for someone in front of a crowd where I only knew one person. It was a positive experience as it was a positive presentation-- presenting someone with an award.

As I spoke, I happened to notice that one smiling face in the crowd who was clearly paying attention and so happy to hear what I was saying. I always try to find that face whenever I have to present... it always helps me feel valued and respected as a facilitator or presenter.

So thanks, face in the crowd. You helped me out today and I appreciate it.

Sunday, May 16, 2010

Rockin' Robin

So this is a for sure sign of my impending descent into senility... but here it goes.

I have been fascinated by the nest of robins that have been chirping outside my window. Three little blue eggs have recently hatched, and I'm truly impressed by the care momma robin takes of her babies. She's so protective and nurturing. It's been really interesting to watch.

The animal kingdom is pretty cool. I am impressed with the care that's taken yet how at a certain point, it will just end. Momma will realize that "it's time" and her babies need to be on their own. Babies accept it and move on.

Still, it's pretty neat to see her feed them and warm them for these few weeks.

Manny!

Manny Delgado makes me laugh so much. I know I've written about Modern Family before, but we're less than a week away from the season finale, and he's said two things in the last week that cracked me up. I try to incorporate them into every day conversation... and while it's only mildly working, they crack me up every time.

"I'm just a boy trying to bring style back to travel."

"Let me just say what everyone is thinking: my jacket's a mess. It wouldn't be, but someone used the iron to make grilled cheese."

Let the Sunshine In!

So I think I'm enjoying nature more than I ever have before.

Look, I'm not going to start hiking or doing zipline tours of the rainforest's canopy, but a nice walk outside on a sunny day is pretty spectacular.

I am looking out my window and seeing the cracks of blue sky through my blinds and I just want to get out there.

People are friendlier on sunny days too. I try to go for walks (keep up that damn cardio) and on cloudy days, my fellow walkers tend to keep to themselves. On sunny days, everyone is so happy and cordial.

Can't wait to get out there after lunch!

Your Love is My Drug

Ah, the guilty pleasure.

I have so many of them. I try my best to project a manly, stone-cold exterior... but a flip through the songs on my iPod tells quite a different story:

I love pop music.

There.
I said it.

My current guilty pleasure is ke$ha's "Your Love is My Drug". Oh it's pretty terrible, lyrically. And I'm sure there are more grammatical errors than I've even picked up on. But dammit, it's catchy. And it stays in my head for hours on end.

I can't get enough of it.

At the moment.

You Got What I Need

While I love Starbucks more than life itself, I don't actually live near one. At all.

One of my closest work friends, however, does. And at least once a week, I am greeted with a text in the morning that says "Starbucks 108" which is code for the fact that she's purchased me a delicious beverage and it's waiting in her room for me.

What's more is that she seems to know the days I really need one. I know it's purely coincidental, but I'm so very grateful. It always makes my day.

Tuesday, May 11, 2010

Falling Slowly

Once is one of my favourite films of all time (#5 to be exact). It's so simple yet so powerful. I saw it about a month after a trip to Dublin, so I'm sure that had something to do with my enjoyment of it.

Although I haven't LOVED American Idol this season, tonight my two favourite remaining contestants, Crystal and Lee, did an amazing duet of "Falling Slowly" from the movie. I watched it on PVR three times. It was the first time this season that I got goosebumps from a performance.

So good.

Monday, May 10, 2010

That's My Goal

While I, of course, love accomplishing my own goals, it's almost like I get more out of seeing other people accomplish theirs.

Someone I know wanted to get into a certain school so very badly. It was one of his dreams and it has been for a long time. He had doubts for sure about his ability and whether or not he was putting all of his eggs in the wrong basket. Today, however, I found out the he got into it, and into the program he wanted. I'm so very happy for him. He deserves it.

While it is only Monday, the happiest I've been this week has been because of that news. It's not like things are going crazily wrong or anything-- the news was just so exciting for me to hear.

I know schadenfreude (sp) is German for "joy in other people's misery"... what is the German for joy in other people's joy??

Sunday, May 9, 2010

Focus Features

I got a new car this week.

Time to pour one out on the concrete for the car I've had for the past 8 years and 235000 kms. So many great memories in that bad boy. Fantastic road trips, great friends past and present who have sat in that passenger side. That car has heard so many stories and laughs. If those (sedan) walls could talk...

I think there's something about a car that makes it easy to reveal secrets and things one normally wouldn't. The fact that someone is driving makes it virtually impossible to maintain eye contact at all times... and getting stared down is a reason why people remain mum. I know that's true for me. The last quasi-big, relationship-altering revelation I disclosed to a friend was while driving as I knew eye contact wouldn't be possible. I didn't want to see the look in the person's face as I knew it wouldn't be pleasant.

It's weird... I am logical and relatively dead inside, but dropping off my old car was kind of hard. I just kept thinking about all of the good times and good people who have been with me in that car and the memories. And for some reason, it felt like I was leaving all of that. Silly of me, isn't it?

I've been thoroughly enjoying my new ride a lot. And I so hope that the memories in this vehicle are even better than the ones I recently left behind.

Black Horse and the Cherry Tree

Hmm... this blog's title is quite misleading.

Just recently have discovered a new highlight beverage at Starbucks:

Grande Dark Cherry Mocha Frappucino Light Blended Coffee.

Delicious.

Telephone

I'm not a fan of the orignal artist or song in anway way... but I do enjoy the Posh Radio 4 Lady's version of the song from the Scott Mills Show.

Mums on the Run

Mother's Day today.

See January 1st:)

Still true.

Vickers

I love the X Factor... it's the UK's Idol show. It's just way better on all levels. The contestants seem to be much more talented. Also, the production value is so much higher.

One of my favourite contestants from a couple of seasons ago has recently released her first single and it's gone to #1! She came in 4th, but her unique style has clearly given her staying power.

I'm pleased that, unlike American Idol, contestants who don't win actually have a chance to be successful... as long as they have the talent to go with potential celebrity.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZmfZU9YJQnU

Golden Girl

Some of my earliest television memories are of my mom and I watching Golden Girls. It used to be her favourite sitcome (may still be even) and I clearly remember Saturday nights watching it with her. It came on NBC at 9:00 and was followed by Empty Nest. We used to laugh so much at it. The show is now out on DVD and I've purchased all of the seasons for her. When I've watched it lately, I'm shocked at how much scandalous content there is-- wow... either my mom didn't get a lot of the jokes or she just hoped I didn't get them!

Anyway, last night Betty White hosted SNL... and wow, it was the funniest SNL I've seen in a LONG time. She was so bawdy but hilarious.

I guess it just goes to show that really truly funny people remain that way forever. So few people aren't just flashes in the pan.

Happy Happy Joy Joy

I do love a treat... below are my new favourites:

Hey Soul Sister

New favourite song of the moment:

Sunday, May 2, 2010

Patio Lanterns

As someone who is practically albino (yep-- that Northern Europe/ Scottish glow really suits me), I'm not a big fan of the outdoors. I burn easily in the summer and I'm not big on insects either.

However, it's only April at the moment, and therefore, the things I really hate about nature haven't reared their head yet. A couple of nights ago, I got to enjoy an evening on the patio. We had an unseasonably warm Friday night, and after work, many of us went for drinks on a local pub's patio. It was great-- warm sun, cold beer-- what more could one ask for.

I had dinner plans and had to leave earlier than I'd hoped, but when I got to my next shindig, lo and behold-- more patio time! I was rockin' my aviators and I looked pretty good if I do say so myself. I had an awesome time-- great food, great friends, wonderful weather... outdoors.

Could I be turning into a patio guy? Am I becoming a Canadian stereotype???

Well... I haven't started enjoying camping yet, so I think I'm still safe for a bit.

Old School

I decided to go through some of my old university notebooks today. Wow.... that took me back. I ended up throwing most of them out... don't worry, I recycled. It was really an expensive box of recyclables. I spent tens of thousands of dollars on those lecture notes and papers and exam booklets and planners. Was it all worth it? I'm not sure. It was a means to an end-- I needed to go to university to be what I wanted to be, so perhaps necessary evil is a more appropriate term.

When I was going through all of my notes, however, I found pages of notes that my one friend and I would write back and forth to each other during class. We'd sit at the back and just jot down jokes, cracking each other up all class.

Anyway, I called her as I was going through the stuff and we laughed and laughed. I miss those times in so many ways. We'd all stress and stress about our work, but wow, we really had it pretty easy-- 16 hours of class a week! And while I don't see my university friends as much as I'd like to, we did share a lot of goodtimes (sic). So many late nights, just sitting up talking or watching a movie or sharing some drinks. I had much firmer deadlines then, but much more time to complete what I needed to. I don't think there's ever been a time in my life where I knew my friends better than when I was at university. My relationships were very much closer, most likely due to similar schedules. And proximity.

Maybe university was worth it after all.

Lazy Sunday

I am up and at them generally every morning before 6:00.

One of the simplest pleasures, therefore, of my week, are the days where I sleep in and don't wake up to an alarm. I'm usually up before 9:00 (unless it was a really late night), but just getting up in my own time or having the luxury to lay awake in bed for awhile in the morning is wonderful.

I got to do that today.

Goodies

In Survivor: The Australian Outback, I clearly remember a scene where Jerri and Colby are laying in the river discussing "Which is better" food comparisons. One of the ones they get to is "Chocolate Chip cookies or Oatmeal Raisin"?

They both agree and Colby says, "Oatmeal raisin never had a chance."

I totally disagree. In fact, done properly, Oatmeal Raisin is my favourite cookie. The best one has to be from Subway. Yes. It's the best in the world.

Mom bought me a pack of in-store bakery oatmeal raisin cookies today... Delicious.

Wednesday, April 28, 2010

Sideways

Just putting it out there-- tetrapack wine is pretty damn tasty.

There.

I said it.

Monday, April 26, 2010

Let's Play the Feud

So Facebook has a new Family Feud app, and I'm officially obsessed.

I've always liked the show... even the reruns on GSN. I also have enjoyed the clips of it on "Funniest Game Show Moment" type shows like this one:

On the new facebook version, you get to play with your friends for Fast Money, which does make the whole event even more fun as you need to rely on them to help you win.

Just another little event making my day better!

Sunday, April 25, 2010

The Lottery

Surprisingly, given my profession, I've never talked about a book I enjoy on this blog. Well that all changes today.

I loved reading "The Lottery" by Beth Goobie. It's about this school in Saskatchewan where all of the cool kids from all of the teams and clubs are in this joint group called "Shadow Council". Every year, they put all of the names of the students into a draw, and one student wins this "lottery." No one is allowed to speak to the winner of the event for the entire year-- no one at all. If someone does try, he or she is punished by having to do menial tasks or through social ostracizing. It's pretty intense, and it really highlights issues surrounding bullying.

I obviously don't love what happens in this society-- bullying is a very real problem for today's youth, and although I was fortunate to not be bullied too much growing up, I still see its importance. I think I like how I've seen dozens of kids connect to this book as they read it. It's easily accessible to them, and they often really get into it.

Any novel or author that can do that gets high marks in my books.

Precious

I've said earlier that I thought Gabourey Sidibe gave the performance of the year for her role in "Precious." I still stand by that assertion.

Last night she was the host of SNL... and I just felt so happy that she was. I think I see a lot of who I was in her... and in a small way, her appearance felt a bit like a victory for me too.

I think we have both fought hard in our lives for people to look past our exterior and we haven't let our outside dictate who we are and what people think of us.

I thought it was a great show-- some memorable characters and moments for sure.

Nice work, Gabby.

Sangwich

I had a Whole Foods turkey and brie panini yesterday... minus the brie... and it was amazing. It's my favourite sandwich of all time.

One of my friends asked me why it's so amazing... and we tried to figure it out as she's as obsessed with it as I am.

Perhaps it's the organic ingredients or the super fresh bread. Maybe it's the warmly pressed presentation or the garlic basil aioli...

Either way... it's delicious. And amazing.

I Am Not a Robot

Ever hear a song that seems to be written just for you at a particular moment in time?

This one seems to be for me today. April 25, 2010.

Wednesday, April 21, 2010

Good Will Hunting

I just re-watched my favourite movie of all time again today, Good Will Hunting... It's been awhile since I've seen it from start to finish, several years even.

I realized this time that the relationship in it that means the most to me, that really is the most pivotal one, is the one between Will and Chuckie (Matt Damon and Ben Affleck). I think it'd be easy to say that either Sean or Skylar are the key catalysts for Will's "healing" if you will, but in my mind, it's all about Chuckie. Will needs Chuckie's permission implicitly in order to move forward. It's the whole "brothers without blood" thing... that loyalty, that complete and utter trust that they have in each other that is so key to everything. I'm an only child, and I so wish I had a sibling or that I'd ever had that sort of friendship with someone. I realize it's too late for me now and that it'll never happen for me at this point in my life. That's not meant to be depressing, even though it may sound that way. It's meant to be honest and factual.

I also realize that I have quite a bit in common with Will, which scares me a bit. I've not got the tragic story that he does (thankfully) but I do see several similarities... more than I'd ever seen in all the years I've watched it.

Perhaps that self realization can be a positive. Does it equal growth? Maybe... but I'd have to act for that to happen-- ha! I do think there's something to be said for self awareness, however, and I think I'm more self aware than I have ever been in my life. For better or for worse.

Either way, I'm pretty stoked to have rediscovered the film in a whole new light 12 years after it came out.

I gotta go see about a Diet Coke.

Monday, April 19, 2010

Sunday, April 18, 2010

When the Chips Are Down...

Hmmm... the title of this post has very little to do with its content.

Potato chips (crisps) are pretty delicious, and I've been going through a Ruffles Sour Cream and Bacon phase at the moment. But I've realized that I actually have a favourite chip-- I'm not talking flavour per se (that would be Walker's Sweet Thai Chili if you're keeping track). Rather, I'm talking about an actual chip shape.

Namely, it's the curly chip. You know it-- the one folded over onto itself some time in the cooking process. I like the extra crunch of the second layer I suppose. It's the chip I go for every time.

Photograph

I love taking pictures. I wish I was much better at it... I have a friend who's becoming a professional photographer and her talent is impressive.



I don't have a great eye for composition, but I know what I like.

The picture I've added here is my favourite photo that I've ever taken. It's from Oxford Circus in London in March 2008. I think it just totally encapsulates what I love about the city. It's fast moving, cosmopolitan, big and bright, and something totally different from what we experience in North America.

This pic makes me remember the past and look forward to the future, and I'm pretty proud of it.

Maury

Chicken Tetrazinni.

I crack up EVERY time.

Thank you, Joel McHale and "The Soup" staff, for making it impossible to not giggle at an Italian menu.

Everytime

The "Stuff White People Like" blog cracks me up a lot. I'm also shocked (and perhaps slightly appalled?) at how accurately it represents me. I'm so white, apparently!

One of my favourite entries is that apparently we white people love "Acoustic Covers." Now, sadly, I am very VERY guilty of this. I have made cds full of acoustic covers.

Here's one of my favourites of all time:

The Luckiest

I've written before about rediscovering a song that you once loved. It happened again, relatively recently, and whenever the song randomly shuffles into my iPod, I'm always taken aback. The song is called "The Luckiest" by Ben Folds... and it's just beautiful. It's a lovey-dovey song which I usually don't go for, but for some reason, this particular track's lyrics are just beautifully expressed.

I also think about the first time I heard the song. One of my (at the time) best friends played it for me in his office. He told me about a mutual friend we had who thought it was so beautiful that she cried each time she heard it. He told me that I should just go and buy the entire album as I'd love it. He was right.

He and I ended up being house mates for about 8 months and in that time I managed to completely mess up that friendship (as I've done so very often with so many of the people I've been closest with over the years) and I completely regret it.

I'm sorry. I really, sincerely am. For all of it.

Maybe the positive I can take out of this is the fact I've just said what I have shows that I have grown a bit over these past few years. I could never admit that I was wrong or that something was my fault. I don't think I make too many mistakes professionally... but wow... I've been a royal screw up with my friends. Hopefully I will learn.

While I don't have the relationship discussed in "The Luckiest" with anyone right now, I do think I'm pretty lucky. And this blog has helped me see how fortunate I am.

Wednesday, April 14, 2010

T Swizzle

Ah Taylor Swift.

I tried for so long to not jump on the bandwagon, but that's not going so well. I really can't get enough of a couple of her songs. "You Belong With Me" is so damn catchy... I listen to it more than I care to admit. In an attempt to gain some street cred, I even found a guy version of it online (as I like to be able to sing along without making the song homoerotic) and I frequently crank it.

On my recent trip to Greece, it became one of our sort of anthem songs that we'd sing most days on the bus... trust me, I can't sing. But wow, was it ever fun... who cares when you're overseas and acting silly on a bus?

I miss that trip... even though it's only been a month.

King Arthur

Random things crack me up.

Last night on Jeopardy, the winning contestant, Arthur, went to town on his signalling device. I swear, he tried buzzing in so hard so many times even Alex commented on it.

Crazy.

Anyway, made me laugh a lot.

Monday, April 12, 2010

The Amazing Race

No, this isn't some giant metaphor for life or anything. It's just to admit my love of the show.

It's such a cool concept-- travelling around the world with someone you (potentially) care about and doing all of these cool activities and seeing all of these amazing places.

I don't think I'd do very well in the actual events because I'm not great at bungee jumping or eating ostrich eggs, and I think it would annoy me to no end to not be able to finish the race, but I'd sure have one hell of a time trying.

Happy Happy Joy Joy

I don't know if my quest to continue weight loss can hold up against my newest discovery:

Almond Joy Pieces.


Like Reese's Pieces... only instead of a peanut buttery treat, they are little nuggets of almond, coconut, and chocolate.

And they are amazing.

Saturday, April 10, 2010

The Buried Life 2.0

The last post I made was an excerpt from Matthew Arnold's poem "The Buried Life"... But the only reason I'm aware of it is because I heard of a show on MTV with the same title... named after the poem.

The show is about these four guys who decided 100 things they wanted to do before they die and their quest to accomplish these tasks or events and their journey along the way.

It's now something I really want to do... The idea of travelling around with your closest friends and doing things you've always wanted to do... so appealing. Definitely accomplishing dream tasks is awesome... but for me, the time spent with closest friends.... that for me would be one of the highest on the list.

The Buried Life

But often, in the world's most crowded streets,
But often, in the din of strife,
There rises an unspeakable desire
After the knowledge of our buried life;
A thirst to spend our fire and restless force
In tracking out our true, original course;
A longing to inquire
Into the mystery of this heart which beats
So wild, so deep in us--to know
Whence our lives come and where they go.

Thursday, April 8, 2010

The Visit

I don't believe that the profession I'm in makes as much of a difference as it says it does to most people. Sure, there are a few people that are really positively impacted by my job-- I was definitely one of those kids for sure, heavily influenced positively. But all in all, I think it wouldn't matter too much to too many people if it was someone else doing my job and not me.

Cynical? Perhaps. Realistic? Definitely.

Tomorrow, however, I have a former "client" coming to visit me. I still don't think that it's one of those "made a difference" stories, but it's nice to know that 5 years after this person left my work, he still wants to keep in touch.

Tomorrow evening, too, I'm hoping to visit with one of my mentors... I'm feeling strangely full circle... and it kind of freaks me out.

Wednesday, April 7, 2010

Hippity Hop

I was introduced to Cadbury Mini Eggs this year.

I think it'll be a good relationship which will last for many years.

Tuesday, April 6, 2010

Beauty School Dropout

This made me laugh out loud today... Hilarious.

Monday, April 5, 2010

Made for Walkin'

We had the best weather this weekend... especially for an April!

Non stop sun, highs in the low 20s... light wind (most of the time).

So I walked a lot this weekend. I knew I'd have to do lots of physical activity given the obscene number of mini eggs I've eaten over the last month and the Easter weekend associated caloric intake. I figured I'd be hitting the gym each day. And while I did visit a couple of times to do some weight stuff, I went for an hour walk each day of the four day weekend.

I love going for walks-- beautiful weather, iPod on, lots of time to think...

Lazy Sunday

I like lazy Sundays... ones that have no plans but just end up being good. Not necessarily memorably amazing-- but just... cool.

Today we went to a small port town in my county and had fries and burgers at the local legendary beach side joint... then went for a rum butter shake at the local ice cream parlour... then to the movies.

Simplicity is underrated.

Food Inc.

So I made our family dinner this long weekend... nothing too special-- pork roast, potatoes, carrots... some chutney. I thought it was quite tasty, and everyone seemed to enjoy it.

Cooking makes me happy. I'm not artsy at all, but I feel that way when I cook. It's relaxing and chaotic and beautiful all at once. I think that's art, isn't it?

Departures

My favourite new show in the last few years is "Departures". It's Canadian, about these two, average guys (who actually are from a city about an hour away from me) who leave their lives and travel the world.

It's just an amazing show. It's probably the best filmed show on television-- the cinematography is incredible. They go off the beaten path... hang with the locals... and really take time to get to know where they are. As they travel, they move from being friends to being almost like family.

I know, on some level, that this sort of thing will never happen for me-- mostly because of time, money, and the regular conventions of day to day life (and also because just picking up and leaving home is so not me-- 2-3 weeks away is my max!)-- but I want to do it more than anything.

Just taking off with one of my buddies to explore this world... I can't imagine anything better.

Out Like a Lamb

This has been, apparently, the first March without snow... ever.

I'm happy!

Hard Core Logo

I wear almost exclusively brand names. Yep. I'm kind of a snob that way... or so most would think. But the thought process behind why I do goes beyond superficiality.

So anyone who knows me knows that I was a big kid who turned into a big adult. And let's not sugar coat it: by 'big' I mean, quite pointedly, morbidly obese. I was dangerously overweight. We're talking totally unhealthy, probably one doctor's visit away from being recommended gastric bypass, most likely pre-diabetic obese. You probably aren't aware of how many "x's" clothes can go up to... but I was pretty close to the top.

So, I lost some weight. Ok, a lot of weight. Like I lost an entire person. I'm healthier, that's for sure. But not a lot changed with me socially. I've never had the Dr. Phil fat person story. I was never shunned or by myself because of my weight. I don't remember being made fun of a lot... sure it happened now and then. (Ironically, the meanest thing people have said to me about my weight have been in the last three years since I've been thinner!) But I worked my ass off to make sure people got to know me for me. I didn't let my weight issue define who I was socially... which probably was part of the problem as I didn't feel like I needed to lose weight to gain more friends or respect or success. I was pretty happy.

So what does this have to do with clothing and brand name logos? Well, I never really got to wear many brand names when I was growing up as the companies didn't make clothes in my size. For the majority of time, I wore no name brands while all of my friends got to wear the latest things. Now, I wasn't all out of the loop-- some companies had big and tall lines... namely Tommy Hilfiger and Mossimo. I am actually quite grateful to them as they sort of allowed me to fit in... for a price. Big and tall clothing companies can charge whatever they want as people of size HAVE to purchase their clothes there.

I really just wanted to wear clothes from regular sized people clothes stores. When I'd go shopping with friends, I'd buy something from the big name stores-- socks, sunglasses, a scarf or something-- just so I could carry the bag around for the rest of the day and kind of fit in. Kinda pathetic, eh? My friends didn't care or probably weren't aware at all, but I was.

Now I can go into most stores and buy clothes. So I do. And it's so much cheaper than the big and tall stores-- even with brand names. So even though I'm called a snob for what I wear, for me it's much more than that eagle or crocodile logo...

Fontphile

I have an obsession with fonts; I loathe certain ones (I'm looking your way, Comic Sans) and I use other ones incessantly (Hi Arial and Verdana!).

Every so often, I have to design a logo for something-- it could be a card or a shirt or some other promotional item-- and this is when my obsession becomes really scary. I spend hours on www.dafont.com, going through hundreds of fonts to try and find the right one.

So I had to create a logo for a sports team I'm helping coach... and I finally found the right font.

Thank you Defused!

Babe, Pig in the City

So I've been trying to be healthier for the last few years... and I have been and have therefore lost considerable weight.

But on this day, (the actual day I'm supposed to be writing about... not the week later that I'm actually writing...) March 28th, 2010, I ordered the following for breakfast/ brunch:

Sausage, homefries, and toast with a side of bacon.

I feel myself dying even as I write it.

The sad thing? It was amazing.

After the Party It's the Hotel Lobby

I didn't really do the sleepover thing as a kid. Sure, I was invited to lots of them, but I always had my parents pick me up late at night. I just couldn't bring myself to ever do it. I don't know why. Uber homebody? Perhaps.

Now, however, I love staying over at a hotel. I, again, don't know why. They are unbelievably expensive. And sometimes they aren't even that great... something may be off- location, cleanliness... etc.

Most of my favourite evenings in the past year or so ended up in a hotel room-- and no, that's not supposed to sound creepy or suggest anything scandalous. I've just found that some of the best times, most memorable conversations, and favourite memories of the last little while have taken place there.

Maybe that's why. I don't really have a negative association with times at a hotel.

Plus... someone else has to clean up for me!

Friday, I'm in Love

TGIF

It's almost the best day of the week (Saturday clearly wins due to the sleeping in... the lack of work... etc...). I think what makes it so good is the ANTICIPATION of being done.

I've written a lot about anticipation... and generally, I didn't think I enjoyed it that much... but apparently I do. I like anticipation after it's over I guess... or maybe it's only when something better is on the way... like a weekend!

Oops... I did it again

So I haven't been updating regularly... and I actually can feel it. I think this blog has made me more cognizant of things I enjoy... and how many I actually enjoy.

And no one's read this yet, as far as I can tell... and I'm surprisingly ok with that. I am doing this for me... purely selfishly, actually.... and not anyone else.

So I guess today, since I'm backtracking and going to do a whack of posts (eleven! eep!), I'm happy for forgiveness... even if it's only forgiving myself for not being as up to date as I'd like to be:)

Thursday, March 25, 2010

The Insider

I love being on the inside of inside jokes... It's so nice to be included in something secretively funny. I feel sorry for people around who are clearly on the outside of an inside joke... I'm that guy frequently... but it's the close connection, the secrecy of the laugh that makes it all the better.

Wednesday, March 24, 2010

You Shouldn't Have

I blogged earlier about how I like it when I get a surprise... I think I like giving the surprise more than getting it.

I love seeing the look on people's faces when they receive something you got them. There's nothing better than knowing that someone thought of you... except for maybe seeing people realize that you thought of them.

Home

I enjoy the Michael Buble song, yes... but home really is where I feel most comfortable.

Lying around in my sleeping attire... watching some tv... talking to the people I care about most.

Don't get me wrong, I love travelling more than most activities... but not quite as much as I enjoy coming home from those adventures.... and then getting ready to go back out again.

Urban Outfitters

In the city. Foreign city...

Feeling like a local.

Coffee in the outdoor lounge after some shopping on a warm spring evening.

Maybe it does get better than yesterday.

Wide Open Spaces

Blue sky. Bright, blue sky.

Sun shining.

Aviators on.

Doesn't get much better.

Ode on a Grecian Urn

I'll be the first to tell you that I'm not a history guy. I took history the one year it was mandated in high school and that was it. I just am not a fan about reading about what happened in year's past.

That all changes when I go to Europe, however. I have a greater appreciation for the past when I'm walking around where it actually happened. I am amazed at how old buildings were built up hill tops and through mountains when we could barely construct similar facades and structures today.

Greece is filled with ruins of history. It's pretty impressive and humbling at the same time.

Happy Campers

I've been doing my best to be so positive this year... trying to look on the bright side, trying to be more grateful and appreciative of everything I have... trying to be less curmudgeonly...

And wow... I have a new appreciation for those around me that are already what I have been aspiring to be like. They are so much more fun to be around. They can make a mundane situation fantastic... and on the contrary... one rotten apple really does spoil the bunch.

Boo hiss to Debbie Downer....
Cheers to the happy camper.

The View From Here

I dislike having the wind knocked out of me... literally... but I do love those moments that take your breath away. Sometimes these can be negative... not a lot of fun... but sometimes they can be so very memorable.

Today I had a couple of these-- ironically inspired by geography (some amazing views along a coastal drive) but I had even more fun watching other people have them all week... Seeing people blown away by something they see... it's priceless.

I'm on a Boat

We took a boat cruise today... and while the cruise itself was pretty cool as we saw some great islands, something else really made my day: the ability to let go of oneself.

I'm not that guy. I get nervous easily and I feel like I always have to be put together-- act "cool" if you will.... just to maintain the semblance of a reputation. Today, I saw people completely abandon who I know they are in order to have fun, dance, laugh, embarrass themselves... all in the name of a good time. It was refreshing to watch.

I like seeing it in others... but I want to see it in myself.

Crepa Crepa

I never thought of crepes as street food until I went to Paris for the first time. I'll never forget it-- across from the Eiffel Tower was this little crepe stand which served hot crepes filled with Nutella. They wrapped them up in these little tin foil wrappers and served them hot off the griddle. I haven't turned back.

I find it quite interesting that crepes have become quite popular in the street food realm all over Europe. Even in Athens we found a little creperie that served amazing combinations of ingredients. It made a great night even better.

Fanta-tastic

I'm not a huge fan, generally, of super sweet drinks. I love a Diet Coke several times a day, but as for the sugary, syrupy fruit flavoured sodas, I'm generally not a fan.

The major exception, however, is Fanta-- but not just any Fanta... European Fanta. It's way better. It's not nearly as sweet, and it also comes in many flavours. Personal favourites include original orange, lemon, apple, and blood orange.

I'm obsessed... even driving 2 hours away to get my hands on a can. Trust me-- it's delicious.

Up in the Air

We often complain about when things aren't on time... but we rarely praise those things that do run punctually.

When flights depart and arrive on time, I'm happy. It makes everything so much easier.

Monday, March 22, 2010

My Big Fat Greek (Vacation)

I have to play catch up... big time... from while I was away.

So many things went well for my trip. One thing that I particularly rediscovered and enjoyed was baklava: delicious, crisp, fattening layers of butter drenched phyllo and nuts covered in a sugary sweet honey sauce.

It's amazing.

And it's really better in Greece.

Thursday, March 11, 2010

Holiday

I leave tomorrow for a 9 day trip.

I am filled with anticipation. Nervous anticipation. But I'm surprisingly okay with it all.

The test is-- will I be able to catch up and get back into this in a week? I hope so :)

JPod

International travel has many benefits-- here's a simple joy that I derive from it.

One of my friends and I always case whatever international location we are in for the best junk food. This is pathetic, I know... but we love it. We scour the mini marts and gas stations for the most delicious treats and then ecstatically tell each other about them. If we are together, we'll generally both get a couple of treats and feast.

One of my favourite treats comes from Australia. They are called "Pods", and they are these delightful wafer cookie type shapes filled with various candy bar fillings.

One of my friends from down under sent me a care pack of them which arrived today.

Highly enjoyable.

Tuesday, March 9, 2010

Hot Stuff

This cracked me up. I've been a member since 2010.

Sorry Dr. Atkins

I love bread.

A lot.

My favourite loaf is the ciabatta baguette. I can't really get enough of it, and without constant supervision, I am honestly quite likely to polish a whole loaf off. It's dangerous.

It's light and airy yet with a moderate amount of toasting, crusty and substantial.

Is it sad that bread makes me so happy? I hope not!!!

Monday, March 8, 2010

You Better Think

I don't think I inspire many people to think very hard. The majority of my "material" comes from pop culture, and let's face it: while it's enjoyable... pop culture generally isn't very thought provoking.

Every so often, however, I end up bringing up a topic or phrasing a question "just so" that it causes actual discourse... Today that happened.

4 hours after I initiated a discussion with a large group of people, some of them were still debating the questions I asked. It might have been the way I framed the question or the slight philosophical slant I put on the query... I don't know... but it worked.

It's moments like that which make me think sometimes... not too often... but sometimes... that I'm actually ok at my job.

Sunday, March 7, 2010

Giving up the Gun

Loving the new Vampire Weekend single...

Friday, March 5, 2010

Two Thumbs Up

I just watched a clip of Oprah with Roger Ebert... He has been through so much since his battle with thyroid cancer. His wife, Chaz, read an excerpt from his journal which I found to be profoundly powerful... it doesn't need further explanation... just... wow.

“I believe that if, at the end of it all according to our abilities, we have done something to make others a little happier and something to make ourselves a little happier, that is about the best we can do. To make others less happy is a crime. To make ourselves unhappy is where all crime starts. We must try to contribute joy to the world. That is true no matter what our problems, our health, our circumstances…we must try. I didn’t always know this and I am happy that I lived long enough to find it out.”

Surf Dudes, With Attitude...

This is amazing:

Thursday, March 4, 2010

Modern Family

This show cracks me up.

I don't find myself actually laughing out loud a lot when I watch tv. Sure, I think a lot of stuff is funny, but it's got to be pretty hilarious to actually crack me up enough to laugh out loud.

I watched two episodes of Modern Family that I PVRed, and I found myself laughing my head off. I especially enjoy Manni, the Colombian step son of the protagonist father. He's wise beyond his years and a hilarious foil to the dad.

A good laugh is definitely a daily necessity for me... Modern Family has provided it today.

Wednesday, March 3, 2010

Scouting for Girls

Can't get enough of them. The new single is perfect.

I do love it when I discover a band before most... and coincidentally, The Script has been getting quite big here... and I've been enjoying them for over a year ;)

Tuesday, March 2, 2010

Steal My Sunshine

It's 6:30 pm and it's still light out.

Winter is winding down.

I am happy.

Monday, March 1, 2010

buydirect

I have decided that online shopping may be better than regular shopping.

It's almost always cheaper to buy things online... there's not the pricey overhead that we're traditonally used to paying for fancy stores and the like. I also enjoy the fact that almost all sizes are always available.

And furthermore, who doesn't love getting mail? I know I do.

AmericanEagle.com makes my life much more easier....

and stylish.

Gold

14 Gold
New Record
Great Olympics

True North.

Saturday, February 27, 2010

Focus Features

My car is about 8 years old... 228 000 kms... It's getting almost past its peak.

But last night it made it home in a terrible storm. It got me back, nice and warm, safe and sound.

It's not a flashy car or one that most would consider cool, but it has served me well, and I'm pretty grateful for its reliability... no matter how much I complain about it!

Coffee Spoons

So, I like surprises... and I like coffee. And when the two come together...

One of my favourite people from work has surprised me for the last four weeks in a row with a delicious Starbucks coffee every Friday. It's honestly been the best start to my day.

She knows exactly what to get me... and I really appreciate her thoughtfulness.

Poker Face

I'm not that great at most card games. Ok, I'm pretty bad at all of them. But I definitely enjoy playing cards.

Big poker game today-- who can't love a game that involves bluffing?

Truly Madly Deeply

This commercial is pretty amazing

Tuesday, February 23, 2010

Bust a Cap

I have been quite partial to my H & M cap lately.

I think it makes me look more British, which is a definite goal of mine.

In fact, I was surprisingly pleased when a colleague told me I looked like a London newsboy off of the fifties.

Freshen yer drink, gov'na?

Monday, February 22, 2010

Ask the Hoff

Oh David Hasselhoff...

He cracks me up because he takes himself so very seriously. In magic eightball style fashion, there's an iPod Touch App called "Ask the Hoff" which answers yes or no to burning questions.

It's pretty funny and pretty ridiculous... and it actually helped me out today.

Thanks, Hoff.

Sunday, February 21, 2010

Sweet

I now prefer Sweet Potato Fries to regular fries.

Just thought I'd give that update.

Saturday, February 20, 2010

That Song

Sometimes a song totally encapsulates everything you're feeling at a precise moment in time.

It's rare, but it's pretty cool.

It happened today for me. It's almost comforting to know that someone else out there felt the same way once.

And, no, before you ask, it wasn't a song by ke$ha or Nickelback :)

Friday, February 19, 2010

From a Land Down Under

I have some friends that I met on a trip to the UK a few years ago from Australia. I met a lot of really amazing people on that trip, but a few really stood out. One girl I met I absolutely adore. She's like the little sister I never had, and just thinking about her makes me smile.

I got mail from her today... and it was a photo album of all the time I'd spent with her, her boyfriend, and our other one friend... all of whom are amazing. It was literally the best ending to what has been a very trying week for me... and it just made me so happy.

I'm so sorry that she lives half a world away, but I'm so happy she's in my life.

Thursday, February 18, 2010

Going Local

I'm a fan of corporations, generally.

Well... not really... but I've been known to love retail corporations. I'm not a "one off" kinda guy. I like mass produced, high quality stuff.

Most times.

I do like shopping for food locally, however. I wish I lived in a place where I had easy access to my own butcher, bakery, farm stand, etc... all year round, where they know my name and I know them... but I don't.

Today, however, I stopped at a bakery which is on my way home from work. I really enjoy the place. They always help me out when I need it, and they serve fantastic carb-laden treats which make me quite content.

I needed that delicious end to a long day.

Easy Silence

Didn't have the greatest day yesterday... but I realized how much I can appreciate those quiet moments... sometimes it's nice to de-clutter and just gather one's thoughts in silence.

I'm fortunate to have that time.

Tuesday, February 16, 2010

String Quartet Tribute

I wish I could say that I was a major fan of classical music... I don't know much about it-- it's not like I can really tell one instrument from another or anything like that. I know "Canon in D" by Pachabel (sp?) but that's about the only piece I can identify. I generally find it relaxing to listen to, but it's rare that I would purchase a classical cd... I think the only one I have in my collection is "Cinema Classics".

It sort of changed a bit, however, when I discovered String Quartet Tributes... This group (groups? collection of people? I really don't know) covers modern rock tracks solely with strings. It's quite lovely to listen to, and I like that I can recognize the song.

I find it a bit calming too-- always a plus in my day :)

Monday, February 15, 2010

We Are the World

The Olympics have brought the world together for a brief moment again, as happens every two years... and even though it's in the spirit of competition, it's always so positive. More stories of compassion come out of the Olympics than stories of hate. Always.

It's interesting to me that NBC used the opening ceremonies to premiere the new, updated version of "We Are the World" in order to benefit Haiti relief. It makes total sense when you think about it-- more people will be watching tv at that time than normal, so it stands to reason that more people will consider donating some cash.

It's an interesting cover... some rap, some Bieber... many faces I didn't recognize... and a highly enjoyable section by T-Pain.

They've created a charity single in the UK too... and quite frankly, I prefer it :)

Sunday, February 14, 2010

Gold

And the drought is over...

So Canada has been the only nation to ever host the Olympics more than once and NOT win a Gold medal on its own soil.

Tonight, that finally changed when Alexandre Bilodeau won gold tonight in Men's Moguls.

I actually stood up and started cheering in front of my friend's tv. I rarely do that.

I think I feel more connect to my fellow Canadians, knowing that we were all cheering him on. And I hope this takes some of the pressure off of the other Canuck athletes. They all do us proud, and I think the added pressure of "never won gold on Canadian soil" has been a lot for them to carry on their shoulders.

Congrats, Alexandre.

Congrats, Canada.

Saturday, February 13, 2010

Def Poetry Jam

After the opening ceremonies last night, which I found to be pretty great, one of the stand out parts for me was the "We Are More" poem by Shane Koyczan. I think it really made people stand up and take notice.

We really are more. Thanks, Shane, for expressing it so well:

We Are More
by Shane Koyczan

When defining Canada
you might list some statistics
you might mention our tallest building
or biggest lake
you might shake a tree in the fall
and call a red leaf Canada
you might rattle off some celebrities
might mention Buffy Sainte-Marie
might even mention the fact that we've got a few
Barenaked Ladies
or that we made these crazy things
like zippers
electric cars
and washing machines
when defining Canada
it seems the world's anthem has been
" been there done that"
and maybe that's where we used to be at
it's true
we've done and we've been
we've seen
all the great themes get swallowed up by the machine
and turned into theme parks
but when defining Canada
don't forget to mention that we have set sparks
we are not just fishing stories
about the one that got away
we do more than sit around and say "eh?"
and yes
we are the home of the Rocket and the Great One
who inspired little number nines
and little number ninety-nines
but we're more than just hockey and fishing lines
off of the rocky coast of the Maritimes
and some say what defines us
is something as simple as please and thank you
and as for you're welcome
well we say that too
but we are more
than genteel or civilized
we are an idea in the process
of being realized
we are young
we are cultures strung together
then woven into a tapestry
and the design
is what makes us more
than the sum total of our history
we are an experiment going right for a change
with influences that range from a to zed
and yes we say zed instead of zee
we are the colours of Chinatown and the coffee of Little Italy
we dream so big that there are those
who would call our ambition an industry
because we are more than sticky maple syrup and clean snow
we do more than grow wheat and brew beer
we are vineyards of good year after good year
we reforest what we clear
because we believe in generations beyond our own
knowing now that so many of us
have grown past what used to be
we can stand here today
filled with all the hope people have
when they say things like "someday"
someday we'll be great
someday we'll be this
or that
someday we'll be at a point
when someday was yesterday
and all of our aspirations will pay the way
for those who on that day
look towards tomorrow
and still they say someday
we will reach the goals we set
and we will get interest on our inspiration
because we are more than a nation of whale watchers and lumberjacks
more than backpacks and hiking trails
we are hammers and nails building bridges
towards those who are willing to walk across
we are the lost-and-found for all those who might find themselves at a loss
we are not the see-through gloss or glamour
of those who clamour for the failings of others
we are fathers brothers sisters and mothers
uncles and nephews aunts and nieces
we are cousins
we are found missing puzzle pieces
we are families with room at the table for newcomers
we are more than summers and winters
more than on and off seasons
we are the reasons people have for wanting to stay
because we are more than what we say or do
we live to get past what we go through
and learn who we are
we are students
students who study the studiousness of studying
so we know what as well as why
we don't have all the answers
but we try
and the effort is what makes us more
we don't all know what it is in life we're looking for
so keep exploring
go far and wide
or go inside but go deep
go deep
as if James Cameron was filming a sequel to The Abyss
and suddenly there was this location scout
trying to figure some way out
to get inside you
because you've been through hell and high water
and you went deep
keep exploring
because we are more
than a laundry list of things to do and places to see
we are more than hills to ski
or countryside ponds to skate
we are the abandoned hesitation of all those who can't wait
we are first-rate greasy-spoon diners and healthy-living cafes
a country that is all the ways you choose to live
a land that can give you variety
because we are choices
we are millions upon millions of voices shouting
" keep exploring... we are more"
we are the surprise the world has in store for you
it's true
Canada is the "what" in "what's new?"
so don't say "been there done that"
unless you've sat on the sidewalk
while chalk artists draw still lifes
on the concrete of a kid in the street
beatboxing to Neil Young for fun
don't say you've been there done that
unless you've been here doing it
let this country be your first-aid kit
for all the times you get sick of the same old same old
let us be the story told to your friends
and when that story ends
leave chapters for the next time you'll come back
next time pack for all the things
you didn't pack for the first time
but don't let your luggage define your travels
each life unravels differently
and experiences are what make up
the colours of our tapestry
we are the true north
strong and free
and what's more
is that we didn't just say it
we made it be.

Friday, February 12, 2010

Olympics

Not much to write tonight-- watching the Vancouver Olympics Opening Ceremonies has made me pretty proud to be Canadian though.

True North.

Thursday, February 11, 2010

The Air Up There

I spent my afternoon watching a pretty intense basketball game. Live. It was a school game where I work, and it was fantastic.

I like watching some sports on tv for sure... but there's nothing quite like watching something live. It's way more exciting and exhilarating. I think when you're so close to the players that you can see their facial expressions, the grit, emotion, and thought they put into their plays, that it heightens the audience's enjoyment of the game.

Today's match featured several players I know pretty well and they played quite fantastically.

Coincidentally, it made the afternoon fly by-- also a bonus!

Wednesday, February 10, 2010

The Invitational

I live quite a distance away from the majority of my friends. Ya, I have one or two friends in my community, but the people I feel closest to live at least 45 mins-1 hour away from me. This is true, as well, of people in my social periphery.

Because of the time/distance, I generally don't get out too much... especially during the work week. It's not like I don't want to go out with people... but when one combines the drive with the time, throw in some bad weather... and the necessity of getting up the next morning for work... well, it just adds up to a difficult time.

That being said, just getting invited to things is a pretty damn nice thing. I sometimes feel bad that I can't attend for the above mentioned reasons, but the invite is nice.

Today I got an invite to a poker night which I probably won't be able to attend since it's an hour away from me on a work night... but it was from someone who I never thought would include me.

Those sorts of mini surprises are unexpectedly nice.

And appreciated.

Tuesday, February 9, 2010

Anticipation

This Friday, Canada will host the Olympic Games in Vancouver, BC. This is quite far away from me (in fact, I believe the Salt Lake City Games of 2002 would actually be closer) but it's not about geography.

I remember when the announcement of the 2010 games was made. I was working, and we all gathered to watch on a computer. It was almost euphoric-- we cheered and celebrated even though it was an event that would be seven years and a 5.5 hour flight away. Still, there's something to be said for national pride and spirit. I can see how excited people are about the Olympics, and we all have such great hope for our athletes.

I can't wait to see what the opening ceremonies entail. I know Canada will do a great job of hosting, and I know that even without competing, we'll be proud of our athletes.

Above it all, there's something pretty cool about positive anticipation.

Monday, February 8, 2010

Peppermint Twist

So, although I feel I may be betraying my national identity, I'm not a huge fan of Tim Horton's. I think their coffee smells like skunk (I know... I'm going to be pelted with beaver tails and maple syrup) and most of their other beverages don't do it for me.

But it's pretty hard to screw up tea. So I tend to get tea when I must go to TH. More recently, I've been enjoying the TH peppermint tea-- a large, in fact, with two sweeteners. It's surprisingly delicious and refreshing. I also like the fact that it's double cupped... since they don't have the Starbucks-esque sleeve.

Anyway, I digress... On a cold winter day, when I can't make it to my beloved Starbucks, a TH peppermint tea will suit me just fine... in a pinch ;)

Sunday, February 7, 2010

867-5309

Dane Cook does this bit in his act about sounds-- sounds that make you happy (for him, it could be laundry in the dryer) and sounds that make you "want to punch babies" (he's not a fan of car alarms in the middle of the night. The whole thing is pretty hilarious... and it got me thinking about sounds I like.

For me, one of the sounds I enjoy the most is that of my text message ring tone. It's nothing special-- nothing funny, nothing uproarious... it's actually pretty professional, as far as mobile ring tones go.

It's less about the actual tone, per se, however, than what's behind it. People get excited when they get a text or a phone call on their mobile because it means that someone is thinking of them and wants to communicate with them. I think a basic desire we all have-- maybe it's a basic need-- is that we all want to feel wanted and cared about. We want people to want to talk to us, to communicate with us. That little ring or beep in your pocket indicates that.

There's nothing quite like an unsolicited beep or vibration to connect you back to one's community.

Connect.

Saturday, February 6, 2010

To Be With You

I heard "To Be With You" by Mr. Big today, and all of a sudden, so many memories of the early 90s came flooding back.

I remember listening to that song religiously in our car every night on the "Top 7 at 7" with "Tarzan Dan". 680 am was a preset on our dial, and I used to love running out to the car each night to check out what would be number one.

Upon reflection, 680 was a pretty good station-- Jesse and Gene in the morning (my favourite segment was "Wreck a Wedding Wednesday" in which they'd call some unsuspecting bride and lie to her about something like her dress being burned in a fire just days before the ceremony... major lols) and then Tarzan Dan at night.

The song "To Be With You" is, to this day, probably one of my favourite one hit wonders. I remember being genuinely confused as to whether the singer was male or female-- and the video didn't help solve the mystery (thank you 80s hair). One of my friends and I argued over that so much-- but neither of us was honestly totally sure.

I don't know why, exactly, that song was so popular to me. It just was mellow, I guess. Hearing it today made me feel a bit mellow too... smiling about a time when things seemed so much simpler, when the highlight of my day would be running out to the car on a warm summer evening to hear the top seven songs of the day counted down by a guy named "Tarzan."

I wish I could go back to that time with the knowledge I have now. I wonder how different things would be.

Friday, February 5, 2010

The Insider

Yep, as you can tell, I'm a total foodie. I'm definitely an addict, and I do have to watch myself. I enjoy cooking, baking, dining-- I love it all-- even grocery shopping.

(Sadly,) this is why I get so excited four times a year when the President's Choice Insider's Report comes out. I love it-- I go absolutely crazy for it.

Let's be honest: President's Choice is the best food brand in Canada. I'm sorry "Compliments" and "Irresistibles" and "No Name"-- you just don't cut it when compared to PC. Not even close. Some of my favourites include their Kettle Chips, jams and jellies, couscous, frozen entrees... I could go on and on.

So today, I was particularly grateful to go through my fliers and come upon a new Insider's Report! I didn't expect one so soon as there was a rather large one at Christmas-- hence the surprise and the enjoyment derived from it. This one features many healthy alternatives which makes my impending PC splurge more guilt-free :)

God Bless Gaelen Weston.

Nothing but a t-shirt

I think most of us have a favourite tshirt. It's one that's worn in, fits just right, and seems to mold to our shape when we put it on. Maybe it's a reminder of the best concert we attended or a great vacation-- whatever the case, it ends up being a favourite.

Whatever the case, t-shirts can be so comfortable. And while I don't have a major affinity to tshirts in general, I must say that there's not much I enjoy more than my tshirt sheets. They are cool when it's hot out; they retain heat in the winter. I find them soft and just the best things to happen to sleep since the bed.

Thank you, tshirt sheets designer. I owe you one.

Wednesday, February 3, 2010

Scrabbulous

I'd never really been a fan of the board game "Scrabble". I mean, it's alright... but it's no Scattergories.

That all changed when I started playing Scrabble online. Wow. It's so much fun. I enjoy the think time and the fact that there's no one across the board staring, pressuring me to move more quickly.

I've won a few rounds here and there... and I'll even (sadly) admit that I've used the Online Scrabble Word Finder on occasion... but the sweetest victories are the ones that come from just trial and error... sans online generator.

I think it's a nice way to expand the vocabulary and use my (limited) word knowledge.

Let them eat (fruit) cake!

In some ways, I think that I'm becoming a senior citizen. No, I haven't started stashing pocketfuls of Werther's Originals around, nor do I almost break a hip when I see the Trebor "Pick N' Mix".... but one of my favourite things right now (well... from December up to the present) is fruitcake.

Seriously. How old am I?

I remember going to weddings when I was younger, and the signature favour was Fruit Cake, and I was so disappointed. "Boo-urns to Fruit Cake," I'd say.

Then, I had a slice of the Claxtons (sp?). My life changed. It was more fruit than cake, more sweet than briny, more delicious than gross.

I was given a Claxtons Cake for my birthday, and I've been keeping it in the freezer... slowly but surely eating a slice here and there. Highly enjoyable.

So bad for me, by the way.

But so good.

Monster Mash?

I hadn't really heard the term "Mash Up" until watching an episode of Glee which featured the concept of two songs being mashed together. Now, I can't get enough of them.

In fact, I had to do some advertising for an upcoming event and made my own. A little DJing, if you will. I think I've got a future in this career-- ha!

Seriously, though, the only way to make two amazing songs even better is to mix 'em up. What a great concept. There's some DJ (Earworm, maybe?) who puts together a mash up of the top 25 songs of the year at the end of the respective year. It's pretty impressive-- almost like a musical snapshot of 12 months.

Monday, February 1, 2010

You Can't Handle the Truth

I think that we, as a society, sugar coat things too much. Sometimes people need to hear the honest truth. I like to know how people feel about me or things I've done-- good or bad. Yep, people avoid saying what they really feel because they don't want to hurt feelings or offend someone... but I'd much rather have to deal with a bruised ego for a bit than find out months later that someone said something nasty about something I'd done or about me. Here's the thing: people always find out things you've said about them. Always.

I think it's rare that we hear the truth.

Today, I heard some truth. It's not the easiest thing to take-- definitely bruised by it all. But I'm so thankful that I have a friend who was willing to tell it to me. That's a true mark of someone who cares-- it's not always easy being a straight shooter.

Sunday, January 31, 2010

I Love This Town

I was sitting in my local coffee place, doing some things for work on my laptop and I completely eavesdropped on the conversation next to me. It was two men, probably mid-thirties, talking about how much they hated the town I live in and how happy one of them was to have left (it sounded like they were visiting his parents for the weekend). The content of their conversation was basically about how backward the town is-- sheltered, weak, close-minded, etc...

Fair enough. To each his own. They have every right to feel the way they do.

But it got me thinking about why I love the town I live in so much. I've written about it before-- the fact that it feels homey and familiar. I thought those were the basic reasons why I love it, and to some extent, that's still true. But today, I think I figured it out even more.

I took my aunt to the ER today. She was having trouble breathing. She's been through so much, health-wise, over the past decade or so, and I guess this sort of thing isn't too uncommon for her. She's in her eighties, but she's feisty and lovely.

When we got in the hospital, everyone knew her. They took such great care of her-- from the nurses to the admin staff, they had her laughing and smiling and just made us feel so comfortable in what was a bit of a panic. It helped. A lot.

That's why I love this town. Nothing feels like it's been "corporatized". It's real people who really care. It's about being down to earth. And even though I sometimes get frustrated with a lack of understanding by some, I'd put up with that limited frustration any time because of days like today.